Spoken words are powerful. They create our reality. By using a word we are paying attention and energize it. If someone tells us, "do not think of an elephant." What are we thinking of? Probably not of rhinos. By using the word elephant or rhino a picture is formed within our mind. The word 'not' does not prevent that. Thus, it makes sense to be aware of our phrasing in such a way that we give those words energy which represent the reality we want. For example: "Now, think of rhinos, please."
If we phrase "I do not want to suffer", then we emphasize the suffering because we focus on it. If we instead speak about joy, easygoing, feeling well etc., then we produce such a frequency and our sub-consciousness knows exactly where to go. Hence, if we energize the words which represent our goals we are more and more magnetic to them. On the other hand, it is wise to deprive energy from such things we do not want any longer by avoiding to mention the word for it in the first place.
Well, what do most people want then? Many would like to live an abundant life. However, if we hope to avoid our lessons by having abundance, it will probably only work temporarily. We are on earth in order to learn. If that appears unpleasant, all the money in the world does not help. If something needs to be solved, then it has to be solved. But we can learn to develop the quality of inner wisdom and peace in order to see our problems as possibility for growth rather than wanting to solve them with money.
So, phrasing positively does not mean to avoid challenges or bury our heads in the sand. On the contrary, it means to have a very clear idea of what we truly want and phrase it exactly that way.
The following attitudes are examples for a positive mindset in order to attract abundance.
These were some examples to have an idea on how we can attract those things we would like to see in our lives by choosing words and thoughts accordingly.
Additionally we can use affirmations. Affirmations are positive phrases we repeat many times in order to anchor them within our sub-conscious mind.
Here are some examples:
It is best to find your own affirmations which reflect your goals according to your ideas.
If it is difficult to accept affirmations, it can be useful to check whether there are contrary beliefs. Such beliefs might have to be released first and maybe some things still need to be solved. There is no use in putting on rose-colored glasses while sitting on a pile of unsolved issues. Ignoring such issues might even cause real trouble because they cannot be suppressed any longer. But that might also be a positive thing, because once things urge to the surface they can be solved and released.
Suggestion: Follow the advice of your inner voice. Allow it to be your guide and observe what happens and how you feel. Develop a sense for those things that are beneficial for you. Be your own authority.